Coaching
A new perspective, listening, turning ideas upside down, creating scenarios, drawing up a map or model of your issues... these are some of the things I offer you so that you can view your experiences from different angles. Since people learn throughout their lives, you will come to realize for yourself what it is that moves or drives you deep down, and also what resources you already have within you to find a solution. What is change? Is it necessary, or do I just need new arguments to enable me to continue preserving the status quo?
Change and coaching are often a balancing act. What you don't want to do is “just” look inward and talk when you need to get started and find practical solutions quickly. But the opposite is also true—no quick fixes when you're not ready yet. And yet, you also need to feel what is actually happening right now. “Just” psychology and navel-gazing when the environment is strategically, politically, and rationally oriented. But also living with integrity. “Just” looking at what is good for me when the path to my goal is rocky and I am ready for it. But also questioning my goal, whether it really is the right one. To do this, we can take deep dives and work selectively (pars pro toto), but also reflect on the coaching, pause in between, and adjust course if necessary.